Adriana FlowersAbout the Author:

My name is Adriana Flowers and I have been stuttering since I was eight. I am originally from Honduras and grew up there but have been living in Oregon for the past five years now with my family. I am currently a Master’s student at the University of Oregon, and I work for a call center at my school’s health center. I attended my first National Stuttering Association conference in 2018 when I was 19. It changed my life and I have not looked back ever since. I am excited to share my journey of being a person who stutters with everyone!

If you had told me a year and a half ago that I would be working in a call center at my school, I would have laughed in your face. Yes, I work in a call center, and I am a person who stutters. Around November 2020, I was looking for jobs on Handshake and came across this job at my school, the University of Oregon. The job entailed working in a call center and contacting students and community members by informing them that they have tested positive for COVID or have been identified as someone who has had contact with someone who tested positive, and then assisting them by providing them with information on resources that are available to them, policies on quarantining, etc. As you can imagine, most people are not pleased to get my call!  I was nervous about even applying because I did not know what to expect. But I did my interview and disclosed and before I knew it, I had been hired and started working in January 2021. Since then, I have made hundreds of calls assisting students at my university and other community members, all while being a person who stutters.

It has not been easy; there have been times where I have gotten questions like “what is wrong with your voice?” or “why are you so nervous?” I had bad stuttering days where I had trouble getting my name out and would dread picking up the phone or answering calls. There have been many times where a call went well in terms of getting what needed to be done, but I would always beat myself up if I stuttered. No matter how many calls I did, I would analyze the effectiveness based on how much I stuttered. Over time I have learned that I can be effective and do my job well even on days where I stutter. After all, I am getting the job done, right? It’s about what I say, not how I say it. There is no issue if you need clarification or because you misunderstood, but if you understood me fine, there is no reason to point out my stutter or react to it. Listen to me the way you would listen to someone who does not stutter.

People who stutter have taken on many different careers and been successful. After all, the way you talk does not determine your level of intelligence or how successful you are. There are many examples of jobs that have been taken by people who stutter, such as air traffic controllers, pilots, actors/actresses, comedians, singers, lawyers, politicians, etc. There are even speech language pathologists who stutter! (Tyrer, 2022).

In the end, if you have a stutter, the sky’s the limit. Do not sell yourself short. You are more than capable of doing any job if you stutter. If you take longer to make a phone call, embrace the fact that you even did the call. Most importantly, stutter beautifully!

This experience has helped me be seen and heard because I am showing people that a job that requires speaking is possible to be done by someone who stutters and that my voice matters and I deserve to be heard no matter how I talk.

Citations

Tyrer, A. (2022, August 29) Examples of jobs done by people who stammer/stutter. Stammeringlaw. https://www.stammeringlaw.org.uk/employment/examples-jobs 

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You Can Stutter And Be Anything You Want! – Adriana Flowers — 108 Comments

  1. Hi Adriana,

    I was greatly inspired by your story! I think that this story will be very encouraging for those who may feel like they are restricted to only working in roles that limit speaking requirements. Your message certainly does matter. I liked your quote, “It’s about what I say, not how I say it.” This encourages me to listen differently in conversations to ensure that I am truly hearing the other person’s message.

    • Hello LeahM,
      Thank you for your comment, that is what I hope to achieve and hope I can inspire others!
      ~ Adriana

  2. Great job Adriana,
    I think it’s wonderful that you took on a job during a time where there was a great need for workers. Did you find people being patient? I would hope that people would be with the information you helped them with. What a blessing you are. I’m so glad this experience gave you confidence to understand your strengths.

    Warmly, Nikki Rader

    • Thank you Nikki! I actually have found most people to be patient, with the exception of a few. I really do appreciate people being patient with me. Thank you for your wonderful comment~
      ~ Adriana

  3. Hello Adriana,
    Thanks so much for sharing your story! I am a speech therapy grad student and found it so inspiring. That takes so much courage to advocate for yourself and prove to others that you really can do anything! I had a similar experience when I was younger when people assumed I could not succeed in sports because of my diabetes. Thanks for helping show the haters wrong!

    • Thank you akdillo!
      I am sorry people assumed things. It really is not fair to assume someone does not have the ability to do something until they open their minds to it. I hope to be able to inspire others to not judge so quickly.
      ~ Adriana

  4. Hi Adriana, I think it is amazing that you work at a call center for your school, that just shows you can do and be anything you want! Your story was very encouraging. 🙂

  5. Hello Adriana,
    Thank you for sharing such an inspiring story. I think it is wonderful that you took a job to help others in such a needed time and didn’t let your fears stop you. I would also like to add that your message on “it’s about what I say, not how I say it” such an amazing and powerful message that really opens up one’s perspective.

    Also, I am curious what the stuttering community and awareness is like in Honduras?

    • Thank you nmarie!

      Thank you also for your very interesting question. There really is no such thing as a stuttering community and awareness in Honduras, at least not one that I know of. Growing up there for most of life, I never really had support on that side of things. I cannot imagine where I would be now if it wasn’t for the NSA. I wish there was a community of Hondurans who stutter, but I just thing there isn’t even awareness of what stuttering is to begin with.

      I hope someday we can change that.

      ~ Adriana

  6. Hi,
    This is such an amazing post! Your mindset of recognizing your own worth and your own capabilities is something everyone should know about. It was so good to see how even when people gave you confused responses and even when you beat yourself up, you learned so much about your own confidence and abilities. I really enjoyed when you made that point that its about what you say, not how you say it, to show that you were able to remind yourself that you were doing a great job.

    Thank you so much for this post!

    • Thank you Olivia!

      I am glad my quote resonated with you. I hope to inspire many others in the future.

      ~Adriana

  7. Adriana, I was so happy to read about your story and learn about what it means to embrace your voice. Reading about how you overcame your nerves while working at the call center filled me with joy. Like you said it truly is about the content of what someone is saying, not the way in which they say it. Stuttering does not define capability. Thank you for being a light and sharing your story.

  8. Hi Adriana! “It’s about what I say, not how I say it.” Your story is truly inspiring and I am so proud of you for finding a newfound confidence with your call center job. Your stutter truly does not – and should not – limit you! Thank you for sharing your story.

    I am curious if you have had any experience with speech therapy growing up and if so, what was that experience like for you and how did it help with your stutter?

    • Thank you Janella! Yes, I have been on/off with speech therapy since I was eight. I did a more intensive therapy group when I was 13-18. Now, I only do maintenance, so I don’t do anything intense but just polishing my skills.
      Therapy has been 50/50 for me. Some of the intensive groups focused on getting rid of my stutter while others are more about acceptance. This last group is mostly maintenance and focuses on acceptance while offering other techniques.
      ~Adriana

  9. Hi Adriana,

    One of the things that initially caught my attention when reading your story was that you’ve been a PWS since you were eight. Prior to reading your story and taking my fluency disorders class, I always assumed people started to stutter at a much younger age, but your story truly brought light to the different ages it can begin. I love the whole foundation of your story which surrounds the fact that having a stutter does not limit what you can do in your lifetime. Also, I like how you not only encouraged PWS to pursue what they would like in life, but you also acknowledged the struggles you face being a PWS working in a call center. I feel as though your acknowledgement of your struggles and how you push past them is inspiring. My favorite line in your story was “It’s about what I say, not how I say it”. Your story was phenomenal and I hope you continue to encourage those who feel their stutter may hold them back!

    • Hello Justiss!
      It truly is amazing how different stuttering is. I know a lot people who have always had it since they started talking, while others developed it later. Thank you for your nice comments, I really hope I inspired people.
      ~Adriana

  10. Thank you for sharing your experience! I hope other PWS read this story and realize that they can be/do anything they want. Many people don’t realize how inspiring just sharing their personal experiences can be to others. I loved your phrase “stutter beautifully” and I hope more PWS gain the confidence you carry.

  11. Years ago I took a job at a restaurant. I applied to be a server but I stuttered so bad during the interview that the manager told me I couldn’t be a server, but he could let me try as a host, since it involved significantly less talking. I said yes.

    Over the weeks and months I got more comfortable greeting people, taking names, directing people, and one day where they were shorts on servers, the manager (a different one) asked me if I could cover as a server. I never went back to hosting, and by the time I left the place I was assistant manager.

    I would’ve never believed I would one day be a server, a job where you literally make your living talking to strangers, but little by little I got there. That’s the importance of small steps. I am sure that working at the call center will give you (or already has!) the courage to try other new things, and like you said, the limit is wherever you think it is.

    Keep going at it, Adriana!

    • Thank you David!
      I love your story as well about you moved on up from a host to a server to an assistant manager. It is truly inspiring. And yes, the call center has made me more confident and given me the courage to try new things.
      ~Adriana

  12. Hello Adriana!

    Thank you so much for sharing your story! I love the quote “It’s about what I say, not how I say it.” That is so incredibly powerful and inspiring! PWS can do anything they dream of doing and their stutter is not something that should limit them.

    I am a Undergrad student studying to become an SLP, do you happen to have any advice for me as a future clinician who will have clients who stutter?

    Thank you,
    Angelica

    • Hello Angelica,
      I am glad my story inspired other people like you! As for your question, yes I can provide some advice. I need time to think about the answers, so you can email me at adrianaflowers1999@gmail.com.

      ~Adriana

  13. Hi Adriana!

    Thank you for sharing your story with us. It’s amazing to hear about the confidence and success you have gained through the call center position. I loved when you stated, “stutter beautifully”. Accepting and embracing your stutter can lead to greater peace of mind. I hope others read your story and see that a stutter does not limit your ability to succeed. It makes you stronger! You also mentioned the challenges faced working at the call center. You made a valid point that if a PWS is understood, then there is no reason to point out their stutter or react to it. This is a challenge many PWS face today. How do you manage or respond to people who react to your stuttering? Or what advice would you give to those who are unfamiliar with the stuttering community?

    Thank you for sharing!
    Patricia

    • Hello Patricia! Thank you for your comment. I guess I manage or respond to people in a kind way. I give them the benefit of the doubt and know they may not understand. Unless they’re rude, there is no reason to be defensive. After all, not everyone knows about stuttering or understands it. I want to educate without making people feel like they cannot ask questions.
      ~Adriana

  14. Hello Adriana thank you for sharing your story. It is wonderful how you took the call center position, and it has been successful for you. You are a great inspiration just like your quote, “my voice matters and I deserve to be heard no matter how I talk”. Everyone is capable of doing any job they are passionate about, and their stuttering should not be the limit.

  15. Hi Adrianna,

    Your story is truly inspiring. What stood out to me the most was your statement: “No matter how many calls I did, I would analyze the effectiveness based on how much I stuttered. Over time I have learned that I can be effective and do my job well even on days where I stutter. After all, I am getting the job done, right? It’s about what I say, not how I say it.” I feel like those few sentences summarize the mountain of trials PWS face as well as the amount of confidence (and time) it takes to accept, empower, and persevere through the stutter. I am so proud of you for powering through and attaining that confidence. I may have to share your quote “It’s about what I say, not how I say it.” to PWS I encounter in the future! Keep persevering, Adrianna!

    – Haven

    • Hello Haven!
      thank you for your kind comment! I do agree that quote summarizes what PWS face. It has definitely taken a long time to accept this part of myself.
      ~Adriana

  16. Hi Adriana!

    I enjoyed reading your story. You are so courageous and such an inspiration. I love that you have not let anything hold you back. I am a graduate student studying to be a Speech-Language Pathologist. I have been in the school setting as an SLP assistant since 2012. I want to share your story with my students and tell them that they can be anything they want to be. I want to be the best role model I possibly can and advocate for them. Thank you so much for sharing.

    Leslie

  17. Hello Adriana,
    Thank You for sharing your story! My name is Aminah and I am studding communications sciences and disorders in school currently. I thought your paper about how you can do anything you put your mind to was inspiring. I have considered changing careers due to my own disability and this paper has reminded me to not let me disability dictate my life. My question for you is how do you keep such a positive attitude when people around you are being negative?

    • Hello Aminah!

      It is nice to meet you! Thank for your question. I guess I keep positive thinking that most people I meet are very understanding of my stutter and are not impatient. It’s that small percentage and I need to focus on those who are nice to me and understand me!
      I am also glad you are not letting your disability dictate your life.
      ~Adriana

  18. Hi Adriana! I am thankful to have crossed you wonderful article. It is such a solid, sweet truth that everyone needs reminded of. I think it is inspiring that you are working in a call center for the college. It is absolutely wonderful you are in a Speech Pathology program as well. Helping people seems to be an important part of your life. Thank you for taking the time to write this article. I am sure it has inspired more than you know!
    Maybe next year they will have an audio option were the speakers can record themselves reading their articles.
    Sincerely,
    Maegn

  19. Hi Adriana, I really enjoyed reading your article! It stood out to me when you said “It’s about what I say, not how I say it”, because for many people they feel as though speaking fluent is more important than the message they are trying to get across. It is so inspiring to see that you don’t let anything hold you back from accomplishing your goals. It goes to show that you can truly achieve anything you set your mind to. Thanks so much for sharing your story, it is very inspirational.

    • Thank you so much anixon04! I am glad I could help inspire you and others!
      ~Adriana

  20. Hello Adriana,

    Your courage and self-cpnfidence is so inspiring. You did not let the bad days get the best of you and you continued on. “It’s about what I say, not how I say it” is what really stood out because I think if we all just focused more on the message versus the delivery stuttering would have been normalized by now. I am currently in school hoping to one day become a Speech Language Pathologist and work with children. I have a question regarding speech therapy. Did you ever reach out and seek speech therapy? If so, was it helpful? Lastly, is there any advice you would give a parent who has a child with a stutter?

    Regards,
    Susie

    • Hello Susie,
      Thank you for your kind words and questions. Yes, i did seek speech therapy and I have seeked it on/off since I was eight. I would say it’s been 50/50. Some of the techniques have not helped in public settings, but they can help me while with family.I felt like most programs I did focused more on fluency rather than acceptance.
      As for being a parent of a child who stutters I would say be patient with your child, do not get frustrated with them and if they do get upset themselves, show them compassion, kindness and support. If you get frustrated, it will only do the same to them too. Do not finish their sentences for them and let them finish talking. In the end, be their biggest advocate since it will be hard for them to stand up for themselves.

  21. Your story is encouraging! Being able to step out of your comfort zone and do something that requires you to be in a situation that can be difficult shows that you truly can do anything that you want to. Being able to talk on the phone and move past people who do not understand or are discouraging and still be positive takes a lot of strength and you are an inspiration to individuals who stutter! I hope you accomplish everything you want to in life.

  22. I admire you for taking on that important job, Adriana, and I really appreciate how candid you are in this essay. Taking on a challenge like that is not easy and can be downright terrifying, but you did it and you showed what can be accomplished when we push through. Thanks for sharing your story.
    – Kory

  23. Hi Adriana! Your story is inspiring and I am glad I ran across it! I love how you told your story and then turned it into motivation for others by showing your perseverance, while reminding everyone that the sky is the limit for someone who stutters. I feel like you were so transparent, which I love! I also liked your “stutter beautifully” comment, all speech is meaningful and beautiful!
    Thank you for sharing your story and experience, I truly admire your resilience and positivity!
    – Taylor

  24. Hi Adriana, I think that it is so amazing that you chose to do a career that interested you without holding back due to your stuttering. Ending the stigma around stuttering will require others to be as brave as you are and put themselves out there! I am inspired by you and hope to see more advocation in the world of stuttering! I am a grad student for speech-pathology and stories like this give me hope for my future clients! Thank you for sharing!!
    -Sidney

    • Sidney,
      Thank you for your amazing comment and thank you for all the work you do!
      ~Adriana

  25. Hello Adriana! It amazes me that you pursued a job because it intrigued you and didn’t let your stutter stop you. Others need to be as bold and open-minded as you are to help end the stigma associated with stuttering. I am motivated by you and hope to see more employment in the stuttering community! Stories like this give me hope for my future clients as a recent undergrad graduate studying speech-language pathology. I appreciate you sharing!
    – Valerie

  26. Hello Adriana,
    I really enjoyed reading what you had to say and how you pursued the job you wanted and din’t let your stutter stop you. I am currently studying to be an SLP and I wonder if you have any advice for future SLPs. Is there any way SLPs could improve the way they talk to people who stutter and how should they go about it?

    • Hello Roxanna,
      I would say that SLPs should not focus on fluency as the end goal. Giving clients techniques is great and they can use them whenever, but being fluent in some cases like with stuttering is just not a possibility.
      ~Adriana

  27. Hello Adriana!

    Let no one stop your go! I am so grateful you are proof of what dedication can accomplish. I also enjoy your manta of “its about what I say, not how I say”, by going in with this perspective, I hope it dismisses the anxiety you may feel when your stuttering occurs. I am inspired how you are empowered by your stuttering and did not let it deter you from any opportunities and hope others can follow suit! My question to you is:

    Have you ever tried empowering others with stuttering to pursue an experience that they often dismiss due to their stuttering?
    I look forward to your reply.

    Kindly,
    Morgan Kim

    • Hello Morgan,
      Thank you for your comment.
      I often do empower others who feel like they cannot do a certain job due to their stuttering. I tell them that if they set themselves that they can do it. Of course, it depends on how severe their speech is, but even then, there’s people who do not let that stop them. Point being, it’s better to let the person decide and encourage and support them if they do chose a career with speaking.
      ~Adriana

  28. Hi! thank you for sharing your story!I am currently taking a class called introduction to Fluency Disorder therefor, i am learning a lot about stuttering and your story was amazing. I just had one question for you, after reading your story i didn’t see anything about going to see a slp, was there a reason behind that? I want to be an slp this is why i ask!

    • Thank you Kathy!
      I did go to an SLP I just forgot to mention that in my story. I went to an SLP on/off for 15 years. I have had mixed experiences, but my most recent one was positive. While I have learned techniques, I am not forced to use them all the time and I am not curing my stutter, just managing them.
      ~Adriana

  29. Hi Adriana! Thank you for sharing your story. I can only imagine the frustration PWS feel when others associate stuttering with their level of intelligence or success. Your post was very inspiring and encouraging, and it is so important to believe in yourself.

  30. Hi Adriana!

    Your story was so inspiring to read! I’m so glad that you were able to get a job even with having a stutter, I hope others read your story and don’t give up on finding a job while having a stutter! I’m inspired to bring more awareness to others with your story, thanks for sharing your story! 🙂

  31. Hi Adriana!
    I absolutely loved reading your story and getting to know you. I love how you did not let your stutter stop you from doing your job! I think you are a great example for every person who stutters and to people who don’t. Your story is a great example of not letting anything getting in the way of accomplishing our goals.
    Thank you so much for sharing your story!
    -Maria De La Mora

  32. Hi Adriana! Thank you so much for sharing your story! I want to put your quote “stutter beautifully” on a t-shirt or canvas bag. I am an advocate for PWS because my partner stutters. I have witnessed a few individual’s in my life that stutter and struggle with expressing themselves in their career due to feeling they can’t because of their stutter. I look forward to showing them your story as a message of strength and hope.

  33. Hi Adriana!
    Although I do not stutter, I struggle with severe anxiety and have a language delay that has affected me in the workplace countless times. I empathize with the harmful comments you have received but truly find power in words you have said in your post; especially when you said that “it’s about what you say, not how you say it.” Thank you for for sharing your story and advocating for everyone to embrace the voice they are given! Continue to stutter beautifully and I continue to speak my truth and stand strong for all individuals who speak and express themselves outside of the “boring” norms!

    • Julia,
      I am so sorry you have experienced these things, first off you are not alone. Never doubt that. No matter if you stutter or not, we’re all in this together.
      Thank you for your kind comment <3
      ~Adriana

  34. Hello!

    Your story greatly inspired me! I think that this story will be very inspirational for those who may feel like they are limited to only working in roles that limit speaking requirements. I know many individuals step back from their dreams or do what they love but I found it motivational that you continued to pursue your dreams!
    I hope to hear from you soon!

    Thank you,
    Charlene

  35. Hi Adriana, it’s so inspiring to read your story. This made me think about the way I present myself in certain social situations. Being confident in who you are and not caring what others think of you is the best way to live life. I’m currently studying to become an SLP and wanted to ask what other careers you would like to pursue? Thank you!

    • Justine,
      Thank you for your comment. As for careers I would like to pursue a career in local or state government or work in a non-profit.
      ~Adriana

  36. Hi Adriana,
    I loved your message about how there’s no reason to point out your stutter and it’s about what you say, not how you say it. I think that is such encouraging advice to anyone who may feel restricted or lacking confidence in their voice. I also think this advice is great to inspire others to put themselves out there. What would you say is the biggest challenge you face with someone unfamiliar with stuttering?

    • Thank you Katherine!
      I would say the biggest challenge I face is for people to understand that this is something I struggle with everyday and no just something I can “get over.” I wish people understood disfluencies weren’t bad and just saw them as normal.
      ~Adriana

  37. Hi Adriana!
    Thank you so much for sharing your experience. One thing that really stuck out to me was when you said “It’s about what I say, not how I say it”. I completely agree with this. I find it interesting that most people will react more to how they receive the message rather than the message itself. I also find it very rude when others will point out things that irrelevant to the conversation, pointing it out does not help anyone in the conversation. I am currently a student studying to become and SLP and currently taking fluency disorders course. From your experience, what advice would you give to a PWS who not only needs confidence but to also maintain that confidence through different challenges?

    Thank you,
    Kaydi

    • Hello Kaydi,
      Thank you for your question and comment. I would tell a PWS that they are more than their stutter and that it will be hard at times, but they will have good moments as well. Having a great support system is key and joining support groups is helpful.
      ~Adriana

  38. Hi Adriana! Thank you for sharing this with us. Your writing was uplifting to read. I completely agree with you that everyone should be treated equally and that there is no reason to point out someone’s stutter. Has your job at the call center impacted how you feel during your daily communication interactions with loved ones as well?

    • Thank you Lexie!
      I think I am more confident in my day to day life now, outside of the call center.I ask for what I want and I do not hesitate. Some days it’s hard but I feel more confident overall.
      ~Adriana

  39. Hi Adriana! Thank you for sharing your story with us! I love how you stated that if a person understands what you are saying, there is no need to point out your stutter. It is true that you deserve to be heard regardless of how you talk! What tips do you have for people who stutter that want to achieve their goals but feel they might be hindered?

    • Hello,
      I would say that believing in yourself is key, but I would encourage people to seek professional help weather it be a therapist to help them with these feelings. I have found that therapy has encourages me to be more confident and not let anything hinder my goals

  40. Hi Adriana,

    I really enjoyed reading your perspective. I as a future SLP will pass on information I learned from here to my future clients. I know someone who has a negative perspective on their stutter, how can i help them get out of a mindset they can not do anything because they stutter? Advice will be deeply appreciated.
    .

    • Hello Desiree,
      Thank you for your comment. I would show them my story if you would like to help them get out of that mindset. Show them articles or examples of PWS who have certain careers. I know that’s what helped me.

  41. Hi Adrianna, thank you so much for sharing your insight on living with a stutter. I admire how you’ve learned to value who you are as an individual. A stutter is not a problem, it’s not something that must be corrected or avoided. I’m grateful that you’ve decided to share your personal experience and have brought awareness to stuttering.
    As an undergrad student studying to become a speech-language pathologist, I must admit- I am not the best public speaker or speaker in general. I stutter I mumble, and I speak extremely fast. I’d be lying if I said I haven’t thought about choosing a different career. However hearing stories like yours, encourage me to pursue my dream. As you said- we deserve to be heard no matter how we sound.
    I do have one question for you- how did the speech pathologists in your life, if you’ve seen one, been a support to you emotionally? I look forward to hearing your response, Thank you so much.
    Kindly,
    Genesis Melgar

    • Hello Genesis,

      Thank you for your comment. I have seen many SLPs throughout my life, I would say my recent SLP has been an emotional support. They give me fluence techniques, but I can use them at my own discretion. Also, I was free to talk about my emotions and process them which is really helpful.
      I hope you can pursue your career!
      ~Adriana

  42. Hi Adrianna,

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. I agree with you that the way a person talks does not define their level of intelligence. I was wondering what are some strategies you use to help you overcome those days where you feel a little anxious picking up the phone and answering call. In addition to that, did you ever go to speech therapy in any time of your life to help with your stuttering, and if so how was your experience?

    I appreciate you taking the time to share you story! Cannot wait to hear back from you !

    Sincerely,
    Aryn Arzu

    • Hello Aryn!
      For some strategies, I just try to put my mind to it and focus on the call only and not worry about other things, that way my mind is only focused on the most important thing. And yes, I have gone to speech therapy on/off for 15 years and I would say its a mixed bag. Most places I have been to only focused on fluency and very few focused on just maintaining the stutter and not completely being fluent.
      ~Adriana

  43. Hi Adriana,

    Thank you so much for sharing this inspiring story. I know all too well what it’s like to have society tell me that I cannot do something due to what they perceive to be a handicap. I love that you are encouraging others to strive for the life they want instead of letting society put them in a box. It’s important for people to know that they can be whoever or whatever they want, and that the decision is completely theirs’s and not anyone else’s. Thank you again!

  44. Hi Adriana,

    Thank you so much for your vulnerability in sharing your experience as a person who stutters. It is unfortunate to me that our society determines a person’s intelligence based on their speaking ability. We live in a world where many people have complex communication needs, and it disappoints me that people have defined you and others who stutter solely on their stuttering. I wholeheartedly agree that stuttering does not define you and that you are capable of achieving anything you so desire. Further, I hope the powerful words of people like you are able to shift the current tide of misconceptions in our society. As you said, everyone deserves a voice regardless of how the voice sounds! I wanted to ask if you have any hobbies or coping mechanisms you use in the times you experience difficulty with your speech. As a follow-up question, do you have any advice for future clinicians as to how they can better empower people who stutter in a therapy setting? Again, thank you for sharing your experience, and I hope to hear back from you.

    • Hello jdunlap04,
      Thank you for your comments, for advice, I would say to not focus on fluency or “curing” the stutter, as that can make it worse and is not helpful in the long- run.

  45. Hi Adriana!
    I really enjoyed reading this as I agree that having a stutter does not emphasize the intelligence of a person, and I am not sure where that stigma is accurate because like you said, a lot of people who stutter move onto successful and contributing careers! I think it is very encouraging for you to take on this job with grace and confidence!

  46. Hi Adriana, thank you for sharing your journey as a PWS. It is very admirable what you said at the end, the sky’s definitely the limit. I do believe that society’s perception of PWS should change because I often hear of these experiences and how strangers have told PWS what they can and can’t do. I like that you said, stutter beautifully and I hope you continue to do so! Did someone in your life like a loved one or SLP change the way you view your voice/expression?

    • Hello manticona, thank you for the comment. I would say it wasn’t a specific person who changed my view, it was more of a collective group of people. The NSA itself helped a lot with this

  47. Hey Adriana!
    I loved this confidence building story. You stepped outside your comfort zone and realized your potential and abilities within the job. I think that your statement about that it matters that you said what you had to say, not how you said it, is such a perfect way of looking at things. Just a quick question for you, do you find making phone calls overall, not just at work, to be less of a scary ordeal now that you have a lot more experience and practice with them?
    Thank you so much!
    Emily R.

    • Thank you Emily. I find phone calls outside of work to still be annoying, but I am more confident and less nervous about doing them! My family has definitely noticed that.

  48. Hi Adriana! Thank you so much for sharing your story. You made an amazing point when you said the way a person talks does not define their intelligence. Like you said, the sky is definitely the limit!

  49. Hi Adriana – thank you for sharing your story. It is wonderful to hear how much attending the stuttering convention helped you. Community is everything! I loved hearing how much of a positive perspective you have in regard to your job. What a wonderful way to be seen and heard! I also liked how you mentioned there are SLPs that stutter. As a graduate student studying speech-language pathology, do you have any advice for me on how to better support people who stutter? Thank you!

    • Hello Summer,
      I would say to listen to your clients first and foremost. They may not have anyone else to vent to and feelings are a big part of stuttering. Be their biggest advocate because most of us, especially when we were younger did not have that. Try not to focus on fluency as the end goal and let the client use whichever techniques they want when they want.

  50. Thank you for sharing your story Adriana! What do you do in situations like you mentioned where someone is rude on the phone about stuttering? I’m sorry that happened to you, and it is great that you are living life to do things you want to do without letting others get in the way. It seems like this position has boosted your confidence and I guarantee you are inspiring many young individuals with your story.

    • Hello, thank you for the comment. In situations like those, I just simply explain to the person that I have a stutter or I say person who stutters (whichever I prefer). I prefer to educate over being rude.