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Weekend Wrap-ups — 4 Comments

  1. Due to my stutter. I grew up listening more than talking. When I went to college I found a career that would encourage me to enhance my listening skills. And I learned to focus on what my client was saying rather than me concerning myself with my speech. And was able to verbally communicate with or without my stutter to address his or her concerns.

    • Michael,

      What a great connection to listening well. I had a similar but a bit different experience. As the youngest of five I wanted to get my words in – so interrupt, interrupt, interrupt and then I was heard. Good skill for 1 of 5 kids, definitely not one I use as a therapist.

  2. Hmm great question! There are so many twists and turns to my journey. As I leaned into the mental health community, attending the MSW program at Hunter, I realized that I had to personally grow before I could be of service to anyone else. The question was – how could I do this? Hunter required us to be “in therapy” to learn about therapy. So there I went, seeking a therapist to help me “absorb” and “digest” my role as an intern learning about folks and their problems and communities in need. What came to fruition was my need to talk about my stuttering. This came about because during this time, I blocked severely and it was pretty obvious that stuttering had to be addressed. Ultimately my therapist shared with me that “the reason I stuttered was because in some way, out in the world, I didn’t feel safe.” I tried to connect this statement through the years – what was it in my past? Was there a developmental stage I failed?? Did I have PTSD from stuttering?? I am still figuring out – in the company of devoted friends who are therapists.
    Mendez

    • Elizabeth,

      Beautiful tale of your story. I really appreciate the self care and journey through therapy.

      Elizabeth K